Okay. Good. So what?
When is this not healthy?
Probably when your interests and desires outweigh or contradict your child’s.
I love my children so fuck’n much. I could never have imagined joy and love like this. THROUGH my children. Through my children I live on. Through my children I learn to be a better man. Through my children I am a father, a husband, I am whole. Through my children I experience the darkest and most frightening times, as well as light and joy beyond imagination.
All children deserve parents and community that love and adore them. All children deserve strong fathers. The absence of strong fathers to young children is probably one of the greatest sins the human civilization has committed to itself.